Saturday, June 25, 2011

loving someone at the wrong time.

Authour: http://lovequotestime.blogspot.com

TIMING IS EVERYTHING. And that also speaks the truth when it comes to loving someone. It's not always the case that a love relationship will exist or can be worked out when love is real, time element must also be considered.

I guess I always knew inside, I wouldn't have you for a long time. While one can always love, hope, and
have faith, he must also count in a sacrifice and accept the outcome no matter what. Acceptance of a loss is
not merely a defeat itself; it is just a process of gaining wisdom in life. Those dreams of yours are shining on distant shores and if they are calling you away I don't have right to make you stay.

They say that if you love someone, you should learn to let him go. How ironic it can get to a certain point of view.How can you let go of someone you're still so much in love with? I guess great understanding and selflessness is the key to such love - an unconditional love. It's when you finally learn to say, "I want you to
be happy." without considering your own.


As what the song goes "But somewhere down the road our roads are gonna cross again it doesn't really matter when. Somewhere down the road I know that heart of yours will come to see that you belong with me." Sometimes in life, the decision of letting someone go actually doesn't end up right there. It turns out to be
just a test of time. Sooner or later, without further anticipation, your paths will cross again. But what if it
doesn't? Then again, one could only hope for it to happen or much better - just have faith!


So, what's the difference between hoping and having faith? When you are hoping, it doesn't always necessarily include faith. But when you are having faith, you are actually hoping at the same time. Faith is a strong belief of the existence of an unforeseen object or a person or the occurrence of an unforeseen event.
Sometimes goodbyes are not forever. It doesn't matter if you're gone. I'll still believe in us together.
Sometimes having faith is just as hard as letting go.


Often, we get down and lose hope. And instead of being positive, we put our focus on the pain. But if we could only realize and see that what we have done could have possibly planted a "seed of love" in the other person's heart, having faith wouldn't be too difficult. We can then believe that love never really fails after all.


I understand more then you think I can. You have to go out on your own so you can find your way back home.True, love conquers all. It conquers us. They say that if you were really meant for each other you will end up with each other. But little did we know that it actually lies in a mystery - we don't choose to love or
be loved, love chooses us. A little time is all we need. The "seed of love" that we have left wouldn't suddenly sprang-up into a tree. It's nurtured through time. And when the right time comes, it will return to
you in a manner you wouldn't have imagined.


Letting go is just another way to say I'll always love you so. We have the right love at the wrong time. Maybe
we've only just begun. Maybe the best is yet to come.There was a saying that goes, "The fastest way to receive love is to give love. The fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly. In addition to these, the best way to keep love is to give it wings."

Letting go is not always easy. In fact it can break you and cause you a lot of pain. But letting go is not really the end of love; it is only the beginning of a greater love. a love that time alone can understand. We cant beg someone to stay if they want to leave and be with someone else, we have to admit that love doesnt give us the license to own a person.

THIS WHAT LOVE MEANS SACRIFICE!!!

Thursday, January 6, 2011

RISK: The means to a satisfying life


”  Leo Buscaglia once said, “ to laugh is to risk appearing the fool, to weep is to risk being called sentimental, to reach out to another is to risk involvement, to expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self, to place your ideas, your dreams before the crowd is to risk being called naive, to love is to risk not being loved in return, to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk despair, and to try is to risk failure. But risks must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing does nothing, has nothing, and becomes nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn and feel and change and grow and love and live. Chained by his certitudes, he is a slave, he’s forfeited his freedom. Only the person who risks is truly free.”


Take a risk today and do that thingy you’ ve been wanting to do …, failing once does not mean you’re a failure..it just means you’ve learnt a way not to do it…start something new, rekindle that old passion, dare to be different, take a risk, stand for a course because through it all..you’ll learn to feel, change, grow, love and live and that’s what life is about. If you risk nothing and do nothing, you dull your spirit.